On April 29, Mark Risser graduated from Eastern Mennonite University. His cousin, Elisabeth Barthlow, 22, of Cleveland, Tenn., officially received her diploma in December, but walked across the stage with him this spring.
Touching, but there’s more.
The cousins are just two of nearly two dozen family members to attend EMU over the last half-century.
For three generations, 21 members of the Mennonite Risser clan have flocked to the Friendly City to attend the university.
Of those, most were involved in music in one way or another. For example, last semester, five cousins were in the same choir. On the first day of the semester, their director, Kenneth J. Nafziger, joked that the Risser “Mafia” was taking over the class.
“It was great to be together,” said Risser, 22, of Orrville, Ohio. “It’s a fun time.”
The family tradition started in 1949, when the cousins’ grandmother, Barbara Risser, attended Eastern Mennonite College (now university) as a freshman.
About a year later, young Barbara returned to her Pennsylvania home and married her childhood friend, Ben Risser.
Decades passed.
Meanwhile, the couple had five children — Benjamin, Dave, Phil, Joy and Jewel — who all took voice lessons and sang in various church and school choirs. In the summertime, the family’s love for music was loud enough for the whole neighborhood to hear, the couple said.
“You put the boys out on the front porch, they’d make so much racket with those electric guitars,” said Barbara Risser, 77, of Harrisonburg. “I was glad when they graduated to the folk guitars. I think the neighbors all knew when they were doing their music lessons.”
The family grew and matured. By the 1970s, it was time for the oldest son, Benjamin, to choose a college. His decision, his mother says, was obvious.
“We just talked so much about EMC there wasn’t much debate,” she said.
One by one, all five children eventually attended EMU, each meeting and marrying their spouses at the school. So many members of their family moved to Harrisonburg, Barbara and Ben Risser followed.
“We jokingly call ourselves the tribe of Benjamin,” Barbara Risser said, referring to one of the 12 ancient tribes of Israel.
And then came the third round of Rissers.
As Barbara and Ben’s children had their own kids, the tradition continued. Of their 16 grandchildren, 10 have attended EMU and two more are making plans to do the same.
In addition to the two recent grads, cousins Lena Risser, 20, Maria Yoder, 18, Nate Yoder, 21, Heather Risser, 24, Jon Risser, 24, Ben Yutzy, 21, and Aaron Yutzy, 19, were all active in their musical pursuits at EMU. “Family time at the beach every summer includes a lot of singing,” said Elwood Yoder, who married Joy Risser. “It’s a family system of musical interest that seems remarkable to me.”
For now, Barbara and Ben Risser say they keep themselves busy visiting their children and grandchildren at the university.
“Graduations, concerts, theater performances; we’re eating it up because we know it won’t last long,” Barbara Risser said. “They’ll soon scatter and be gone.”
Gone for a while, anyway. That is, until round four.
By Heather Bowser of the Harrisonburg Daily News-Record, reprinted with permission.