{"id":8878,"date":"2018-09-06T12:45:33","date_gmt":"2018-09-06T16:45:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/?p=8878"},"modified":"2019-11-01T14:19:55","modified_gmt":"2019-11-01T18:19:55","slug":"eye-opening-conversations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/2018\/09\/eye-opening-conversations\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Eye-Opening&#8217; Conversations at SPI"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_8942\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8942\" style=\"width: 650px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/is\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2018\/09\/20180531-Ari-Wilkenfeld-SPI-Lunch-002.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-8942\" src=\"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/is\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2018\/09\/20180531-Ari-Wilkenfeld-SPI-Lunch-002-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"650\" height=\"433\" srcset=\"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2018\/09\/20180531-Ari-Wilkenfeld-SPI-Lunch-002-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2018\/09\/20180531-Ari-Wilkenfeld-SPI-Lunch-002-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2018\/09\/20180531-Ari-Wilkenfeld-SPI-Lunch-002-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2018\/09\/20180531-Ari-Wilkenfeld-SPI-Lunch-002.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-8942\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Civil rights attorney Ari Wilkenfeld speaks at the May 31 Horizons of Change luncheon. Among others, he represents two female clients bringing legal action against high-profile men in media.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h3>A CIVIL RIGHTS ATTORNEY AND A RACE RELATIONS EXPERT SHARE NEW PERSPECTIVES<\/h3>\n<p>Race relations expert\u00a0<strong>Daryl Davis<\/strong> and attorney <strong>Ari Wilkenfeld<\/strong> brought diverse perspectives on civil rights to Horizons of Change luncheons during SPI 2018.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_8943\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8943\" style=\"width: 200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/is\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2018\/09\/20180606-Daryl-Davis-SPI-Lunch-012.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-8943\" src=\"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/is\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2018\/09\/20180606-Daryl-Davis-SPI-Lunch-012-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"301\" srcset=\"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2018\/09\/20180606-Daryl-Davis-SPI-Lunch-012-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2018\/09\/20180606-Daryl-Davis-SPI-Lunch-012-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2018\/09\/20180606-Daryl-Davis-SPI-Lunch-012-267x400.jpg 267w, https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2018\/09\/20180606-Daryl-Davis-SPI-Lunch-012.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-8943\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Daryl Davis presents \u201cRace Relations and Constructive Dialogue with the KKK\u201d at the June 6 Horizons of Change luncheon.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Davis has spent decades in dialogue with members of white supremacist groups, including the Klu Klux Klan, and convinced many to rethink these affiliations. He is the author of <em>Klan-destine Relationships: A Black Man\u2019s Odyssey in the Ku Klux Klan<\/em> (New Horizon Press, 1998) due for reprint in the next year. He has also been the subject of a 2016 documentary Accidental Courtesy and has been featured by <em>The Washington Post, The Atlantic<\/em>, NPR and CNN.<\/p>\n<p>Wilkenfeld has spent his professional life in the combative, confrontational world of litigation. In a corner of his Washington, D.C. office at the law firm of Wilkenfeld, Herendeen &amp; Atkinson, he keeps a collection of baseball bats, one for each case he has won in court. At SPI, Wilkenfeld visited Professor Carolyn Stauffer\u2019s \u201cSexual Harms: Changing the Narrative\u201d class and later spoke at a luncheon.<\/p>\n<p>Those interactions exposed \u201cthe world that I live in,\u201d which stigmatizes the possibilities, process and potential of collaborative conflict resolution, he said in a phone interview a few days later. \u201cI\u2019ve studied truth and reconciliation as it was\u00a0conducted in South Africa, and taught negotiation and diplomacy in college and law school, but never had the opportunity to have my manner of doing my job challenged by a group of people who have different ideas about conflict resolution, and not just different ideas but carefully studied and well-thoughtout ideas.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Many SPI participants \u2013 and not just those attending this year\u2019s first-time course offering on sexual harms \u2013 bring a nuanced understanding of gender-related violence, said <strong>Bill Goldberg MA \u201801<\/strong>, SPI director.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIncreased gender-based violence and inequalities are common symptoms of fragile states, which is why global attention is much more attuned to this issue,\u201d Goldberg said. \u201cThe United States delayed development of its required action plan related to UNCR 1325 for 11 years, which says something about how little our political leadership cares about this issue. The grass-roots efforts of the #MeToo and Time\u2019s Up movements reflect on issues of global importance.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>During his talk, his word choice was respectfully challenged by listeners. Later, Wilkenfeld said that he\u2019s been mulling over the different perspectives he heard.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt would be better if, instead of beating each other up in court, we could all sit down and talk things out, figure out how much harm is done and do so in a way that is designed to heal everybody, even the alleged perpetrator,\u201d he said. \u201cPeople in my profession should all be thinking about that possibility. But our culture doesn\u2019t value that kind of resourceful thinking about conflict resolution. Our culture values wins and losses.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A CIVIL RIGHTS ATTORNEY AND A RACE RELATIONS EXPERT SHARE NEW PERSPECTIVES Race relations expert\u00a0Daryl Davis and attorney Ari Wilkenfeld brought diverse perspectives on civil&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/2018\/09\/eye-opening-conversations\/\" target=\"_self\" class=\"more-link\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">about &#8216;Eye-Opening&#8217; Conversations at SPI<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8942,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1073],"tags":[85],"issues":[1508],"class_list":["post-8878","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-magazine","tag-bill-goldberg","issues-2018-19"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8878","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8878"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8878\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8968,"href":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8878\/revisions\/8968"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8942"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8878"},{"taxonomy":"issues","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/peacebuilder\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/issues?post=8878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}