{"id":299,"date":"2011-02-24T11:59:14","date_gmt":"2011-02-24T11:59:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/crossroads\/?p=299"},"modified":"2012-03-02T14:20:57","modified_gmt":"2012-03-02T19:20:57","slug":"finding-her-voice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/emu.edu\/now\/crossroads\/2011\/02\/24\/finding-her-voice\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding Her Voice"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>In Selfless Fundraising<\/h3>\n<p><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-301\" src=\"\/\/emu.edu\/now\/is\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2011\/02\/music-8133_cc1_opt-e1298566592854-300x245.jpg\" alt=\"Madeline Bender\" width=\"300\" height=\"245\" \/>MADELINE BENDER &#8217;93 <\/strong>is the singer, the patron, the inspiration,  for rallying members of the opera world to support the Global Family  program of Mennonite Central Committee (MCC).<\/p>\n<p>To those who follow opera, Madeline is known as leading lady  Violetta in \u201cLa Traviata\u201d with the Vancouver Opera. Or as Eurydice in  the cutting-edge Paris production of \u201cOrph\u00e9e et Eurydice,\u201d conducted by  John Eliot Gardiner. Or as Helena in \u201cA Midsummer\u2019s Night\u2019s Dream\u201d with  the acclaimed Glyndebourne Festival Opera in England (and also with the  Pittsburgh Opera and La Monnaie in Brussels). Her list of major operatic  roles as a soprano is pages long \u2013 just Google \u201cMadeline Bender.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Less visible in the opera world is her Mennonite background. One  has to dig to discover that before she entered graduate school at the  prestigious Manhattan School of Music, she earned a bachelor\u2019s in music  at Eastern Mennonite University.<\/p>\n<p>Madeline spent her early childhood among her mother&#8217;s folks in  the Harrisonburg area, and her middle-school and high-school years in  Lancaster County, Pennsylvania. She is the daughter of Jon Scott \u201962 and  Nancy Shank Bender \u201964, both public school educators. Madeline and her  two sisters graduated from Lancaster Mennonite High School.<a href=\"#1\">[1]<\/a> Neffsville Mennonite is their home church (earlier, it was Trissels Mennonite in Broadway, Virginia).<\/p>\n<p>Madeline came to EMU intending to be a pre-med major. \u201cI thought I  could be of service if I was a doctor. It goes back to this wonderful  Mennonite undercurrent that service is so important. I loved to sing,  but I thought it was a self-indulgent thing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She enjoyed taking anatomy and physiology under an \u201castonishingly  great\u201d science professor, Daniel B. Suter, but she hit a wall with  organic chemistry. Meanwhile, she felt alive every moment she stepped on  stage, as she did under the direction of theater professor Barb Graber  and under music professor Kenneth J. Nafziger<a href=\"#2\">[2]<\/a> with the<br \/>\nChamber Singers.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_303\" style=\"width: 185px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-303\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-303\" src=\"\/\/emu.edu\/now\/is\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/54\/2011\/02\/bender-2182_opt-e1298566706893-175x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"175\" height=\"300\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-303\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Madeline Bender performing at the Vancouver Opera in La Traviata (2004). Photo by Tim Matheson.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Feeling confused to the point of paralysis, Madeline went to  Nafziger and asked him, \u201cShould I do pre-med, or should I do music?\u201d She  recalls receiving an unequivocal answer: \u201cYou need to be a singer.\u201d  Madeline credits Nafziger with giving her permission \u201cto let go of  feeling that I had to be of service in a direct way.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Madeline had struggled with \u201cjustifying something I love to do\u201d  when that \u201csomething\u201d is an art form that seems impractical and maybe  even frivolous.<\/p>\n<p>In the eyes of many, \u201cputting on a wig and an 18th century corset  and big bouncy dress doesn\u2019t really serve a purpose other than putting  on a good show,\u201d Madeline says. \u201cOpera singing is like being a little  girl playing dress-up, it\u2019s like Halloween, it is like becoming another  person.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Yet she has come to appreciate that truths emerge through telling  good stories. \u201cSometimes the most truth comes through the arts. It\u2019s  somebody\u2019s expression. It\u2019s not their brain getting in the way. It\u2019s a  conduit or something. I always latch onto the expensive perfume being  dumped on Jesus\u2019s feet \u2013 it seemed wasteful to the disciples but Jesus  said it wasn\u2019t. It expressed love, beauty and giving. To me, that\u2019s the  Bible story that ties it all together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Madeline says that Ken J. Nafziger helped her to understand, in her words:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Sometimes you need to dump the perfume. It&#8217;s part of living in a  civilized culture, of reaching higher. It feeds the soul. It\u2019s part of  being a sentient being. We aren\u2019t animals. We don\u2019t just need food and  tuberculosis shots. We do need to feed our souls, and we do that through  the arts.<\/p>\n<p>The quality of the art you drink in is important, and we have to  strive for the best. It can\u2019t just be the best for Lancaster County or  Harrisonburg, Virginia. You have to strive to be the very best that you  can possibly be in the world, in the history of the world.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Such words should give music lovers a glimpse into the quality of  the program that Madeline will be putting together for her January 22,  2011, MCC fundraiser.<\/p>\n<p>The performers she has lined up \u201care really, truly world-class  people who can easily get five-, six-, [or] seven-thousand dollars for a  performance. So for them to come and sing for free is a big donation of  their talent,\u201d she explains. \u201cIt is a really generous act.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But these performers are also going to have fun, Madeline adds,  because they get to sing pieces they already know and can do well, they  get tickets for an easy train ride from their homes in New York City to  Lancaster, and they get the satisfaction of knowing they are helping  others.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cArtists love to sing,\u201d Madeline says. \u201cI can\u2019t think of a  performer who wouldn\u2019t be happy to sing for a good cause. So much about  the arts is not a money-driven thing. To get where they are, most  artists have had to rely on the generosity of people.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Madeline says she has to be flexible, though, in who she books  for the Global Family fundraiser. If a paying job unexpectedly comes  through for one of her featured performers, Madeline will need to tap  the shoulder of another good friend. No problem \u2013 New York is filled  with possibilities.<\/p>\n<p>One singer nobody will see at the Fulton this year, however, is  Madeline\u2019s husband, Paul Whelan, a baritone and bass-baritone singer. He  will be in an opera in Oslo, Norway, at that time. He missed last  year\u2019s fundraiser, too \u2013 \u201che had to race off, I forget where,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p>In recent years, Whelan has filled so many leading roles in  operas around the world \u2013 at such coveted venues as the Metropolitan,  Covent Garden, M\u00fcnchen, Op\u00e9ra de Paris, Op\u00e9ra de Gen\u00e8ve and Netherlands  Opera \u2013 his name is known to almost everyone who follows the  performances and progress of opera stars.<\/p>\n<p>Several years before they married (in 2007), Whelan accompanied  Madeline to the 2004 Shenandoah Valley Bach Festival, where both were  featured singers. It may be a while before EMU sees the pair on the same  stage again.<\/p>\n<p>These days Whelan scarcely has time between engagements to  connect in person with Madeline and their 2-year-old son, Zachary. She  calculated that he will be spending just six days at their Manhattan  home between December 2010 and May 2011. She and Zachary will travel for  extended visits with Whelan, however, especially when he is performing  in London (which Madeline views as her other home) and his native  country of New Zealand.<\/p>\n<p>Meanwhile, Madeline is taking steps to awaken her career from a  deep sleep. In January 2005, Madeline was blissfully at the pinnacle of  the opera world, having just played Helena in \u201cA Midsummer\u2019s Night\u2019s  Dream\u201d at Belgium\u2019s top opera house, Le Th\u00e9\u00e2tre Royal de la Monnaie in  Brussels. She was preparing for her next role when she learned that her  mother\u2019s cancer had returned and was untreatable.<\/p>\n<p>Madeline returned home to be with her mother during her last five  months. \u201cI lost my voice. I lost it almost completely. I could speak,  but I couldn\u2019t sing properly. Nothing was wrong physically. Basically it  was a psychological block.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nancy Shank Bender died on May 31, 2005. \u201cMy mom \u2013 just as she  taught me how to live in so many ways \u2013 I really feel like she taught me  how to die. It was just so full. It was a time of visiting friends and  seeing loved ones and focusing on family and life going on. She didn\u2019t  focus on dying, but she didn\u2019t push it away.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As Madeline was finding her voice again, another family matter  intervened: She became pregnant. \u201cHaving Zachary wasn\u2019t planned, but it  is good that it worked out that way. It has been a tremendous blessing.  To be honest, I don\u2019t know if I ever would have had the courage to take  the time out to have a child.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think a lot of women who are singers slip into that easily.  They just keep putting it off and putting it off and putting it off  because it is very hard. You kind of go from job to job and from the  strength of your last performance, and it is very scary to think of  turning something down or disappearing for a while. Unless you have to  do it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Madeline may have temporarily fallen silent while focusing on her  mother and son, but she has deepened her heart. This has got to be  reflected, sooner or later, in the magnificent voice she first claimed  at EMU.<\/p>\n<p>For more information on Madeline Bender\u2019s \u201cSing for Hope:\u00a0Winter  Opera Gala,\u201d her third annual concert benefiting MCC\u2019s Global Family  educational sponsorship program, visit <a href=\"http:\/\/eastcoast.mcc.org\/winteroperagala\">www.eastcoast.mcc.org\/winteroperagala<\/a><\/p>\n<p>[<a name=\"1\">1<\/a>]  Her elder sister, Courtney Bender, proceeded to Swarthmore College,  then Princeton, and is now a religion professor at Columbia University.  Her younger sister, Sena Bender Larard, started at EMU in 1993, but  transferred in 1995 to study cello with a mentor she found at Roanoke  College. In 2000 she switched her focus to voice by studying at the  Brooklyn Conservatory of City University of New York. She is now a  singer based in London.<\/p>\n<p>[<a name=\"#2\">2<\/a>]  Nafziger also led a group of students, including Madeline, on a  cross-cultural semester to Germany, where Madeline spent much of her  time at concerts and operas. This exposure also had a major impact on  Madeline.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In Selfless Fundraising MADELINE BENDER &#8217;93 is the singer, the patron, the inspiration, for rallying members of the opera world to support the Global Family program of Mennonite Central Committee (MCC). To those who follow opera, Madeline is known as leading lady Violetta in \u201cLa Traviata\u201d with the Vancouver Opera. 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